Getting Down on the Floor: Seeing the World Through My Toddler’s Eyes

It’s easy to forget what the world looks like when you’re only two feet tall. We spend our days towering over our kids—grabbing snacks off shelves, steering strollers, answering emails, mowing lawns. But here’s a simple experiment that might flip your whole perspective. Your 3 or 4 year old says, “Daddy, come play!” Then she […]

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Sit Down With Your Dad and Interview Him…You Might Be Surprised.

It’s a simple idea: set up your phone or camera, sit your dad down, hit record, and just talk. Not about politics or sports or what’s for dinner — but about him. His life. His childhood. His memories of his own dad. How he met your mom. The struggles, the joys, the whole messy beautiful […]

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The Living Room Tug-of-War: TV or Togetherness?

I’ve noticed something in homes lately—maybe you have too. We used to gather around the fireplace. Now we gather around the flat screen. Walk into most new homes or renovated living rooms, and you’ll find the TV mounted proudly above the fireplace like some kind of glowing family crest. It’s front and center. The focal […]

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Dad’s Place: Creating a Safe Harbor After Divorce

Divorce can feel like a storm. One minute you’re steering your ship, the next you’re trying to patch the sails in high winds. But even after the papers are signed and the dust settles, there’s something incredibly important still riding on your shoulders: being Dad. And being Dad doesn’t stop when the kids aren’t with […]

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The End of the Day “Pocket Dump”

There’s a quiet ritual I used to watch without realizing it was a ritual. My dad would come home from work and, without fail, head to his bedroom and empty his pockets. Keys, coins, receipts, screws or nails, a folded note, his pocket knife. Always the same routine: left hand holding the money, right hand […]

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When Dad Moves In: Giving Him Purpose, Not Just a Place

It starts with a phone call. Or maybe a quiet moment at a family gathering. Your wife glances at you across the room, nods toward her dad sitting a little too still on the couch. Or maybe it’s your own dad, the guy who once worked 12-hour days and fixed the lawnmower with a butter […]

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Words That Echo

There’s this strange, beautiful thing that happens when your dad is gone. His voice—maybe not always loud when he was alive—suddenly becomes the loudest thing in your head. Example: You’re fixing something around the house, the kind of thing he could do with his eyes closed. You mess it up, of course. And suddenly there […]

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Superheroes, Sidekicks, and the Dad Cape

Let’s talk superheroes. My son once told me, very matter-of-factly, that Batman could totally beat Superman—as if it were common knowledge, like gravity or the smell of a full diaper. And as we debated this comic book conundrum over a bowl of cereal and a juice box, I started thinking about how kids view the […]

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