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Do your kids know about your first job? Not your career. Not the job where you finally got a decent paycheck, a business card, and a coffee mug with the company logo on it. I mean your firstjob. The job where you were probably underpaid, overdressed, and completely unaware of what you were doing. Tell […]

There was a time when a dad worried about the magazines his daughter might pick up at the grocery store. You remember them. Perfectly lit celebrities. Perfect skin. Perfect hair. Perfect bodies. And somewhere on the cover, a headline promising the secret to losing ten pounds, getting a “beach body,” or looking younger by Tuesday. […]

There are things in my house that aren’t worth much money….but, I wouldn’t sell them for anything. That’s the funny thing about family heirlooms. To somebody else, they might look like an old watch, a beat-up toolbox, a faded photograph, Grandma’s mixing bowl, Dad’s pocketknife or an old Gillette safety razor. To you, they’re priceless. […]

We tend to think of fatherhood in terms of the big moments. Graduations. Weddings. Birthday parties. Championship games. First jobs. College acceptance letters. The moments when everybody gathers around and takes pictures.  And yes, Dad should be there for those moments. But here’s something I’ve learned: **some of the most important moments in a child’s life […]

There’s a little grouping of words that can be surprisingly difficult for a Dad to say. It’s not “I love you.” It’s not even “I was wrong.” It’s the two words that sometimes come after all of that:“I’m sorry.” Now, some Dads are really good at apologizing. Other Dads…well, we treat an apology like it’s […]

Well, here we are. It’s early August. You know what that means. The stores have already decided summer is over. The swimsuits are pushed into a lonely clearance rack, and every aisle is suddenly packed with notebooks, crayons, glue sticks, backpacks, and even SOME Halloween stuff!!!! Back-to-school season has officially begun. Now, if you’re a […]

As dads, we spend a lot of time thinking about what we’ll leave behind. Maybe it’s a toolbox. A fishing rod. A family recipe. A favorite baseball glove. Perhaps it’s a little money or a home that’s been in the family for years. But the greatest inheritance isn’t something that fits in a box. It’s […]

There was a time when becoming a father felt like a milestone. A defining moment. A crossing over into something bigger than yourself. Somewhere along the way, though, that idea got watered down. Fatherhood started getting framed as either a punchline or a paycheck—either the goofy guy who doesn’t know how to load a dishwasher, […]

Let Them Be The Star of Their Own Show There’s a moment every parent faces—usually somewhere between Little League sign-ups and piano recitals—where we have to ask ourselves a tough question: Am I helping my kid discover who they are… or trying to recreate who I was? As dads, we come into this gig with […]

People love to separate work and home. “Business is business.” “Family is family.” “Don’t mix them.” But every good dad I know laughs at that. Because if you’re doing fatherhood right, it rewires how you lead, how you listen, how you solve problems… and those skills follow you straight into the office, the workshop, the […]